5 Fun (and Simple) Boudoir Poses Every Woman Should Try...For Real!

The fun part of the boudoir session is the posing. Even though there are only a few main ways to pose people: standing, laying down, kneeling & sitting-- from within that basic framework, there are lots of variations. By subtly positioning arms, legs, and hand differently within that core group of positions, a skilled boudoir photographer can literally create hundreds of different posing ideas!

One thing I make clear to my clients, is that no homework is necessary on their part. Sometimes, I'll get a message from one of my clients along the lines of "OMG! I have no idea of what to do... where do I even start?" Don't worry! Your photographer will have all this under control. You are going in to your session to have fun, not plan out a complicated series of poses-- your boudoir photographer will coach you through everything. Promise!

Sometimes, clients will be on Pinterest, or Instagram looking through boudoir poses, and come across something they really like. That's great-- but it shouldn't be a requirement. If you have been doing some homework, and have found a pose that caught your eye, share with with your photographer.

Aside from all that, boudoir has really evolved over the past few years, and almost anything goes. From demure to downright sexy & provocative-- I see it all every year. The truth of the matter is there is no one correct way to do a boudoir session. It's all fine. A lot of it boils down to customer preference and level of comfort.

If edgier posing is your thing , it may seem a bit awkward at first to discuss some of these posing ideas with your photographer. Trust me, experienced photographers have seen it all. It's your photographers job to build a rapport with you from the start, so clients will feel comfortable discussing any ideas they may have. Your session should be a judgement-free zone.

The best strategy is to check out the photographer's online galleries, and make certain you see photos in there are in line with what you may have in mind for your session.

Below, are a few fun and simple posing ideas you may consider for your upcoming boudoir session. So, without further delay, here we go...

Fun Boudoir Pose 1.

Simple lay down poses are not only pretty, but they are easy to do. As you can see, boudoir isn't always about going "bare" or having little clothing on. Tank tops and jeans can make for super beautiful shots.

Fun Boudoir Pose 2.

Elegant boudoir posing in fishnets and a pair of heels. Fishnets can really make a statement in your boudoir album. It's daring. It's fun. If this has you feeling a bit "exposed," you can wear undies under the fishnets.

Fun Boudoir Pose 3.

Gettin' married? Another really pretty and simply boudoir pose puts your engagement ring as the center of attention. This pose is definitely a keeper and worth taking up an entire spread in your album.

Fun Boudoir Pose 4.

Super pretty & comfy. There are lots of options from kneeling. This pose certainly has more of a casual boudoir feel. If that is your style... keep it casual.

Fun Boudoir Pose 5.

In the standing pose category, there are sooo many options. BUT-- as you can see it doesn't have to be complicated to be pretty. No complicated gymnastics or back-breaking maneuvers are necessary. Standing poses are the perfect showcase for your lingerie.

These were just a few simple poses from a universe of thousands of possibilities.

Boudoir posing does not have to be complicated to be beautiful. They key is to not overthink or over-do it.

Conclusion

Boudoir photography is all about embracing your unique beauty and having a good time while doing it. These fun and simple poses are just a starting point to show how versatile and enjoyable boudoir can be. Whether you're rocking a casual look in jeans, flaunting a more provocative pose in fishnets, or capturing a romantic moment centered around your engagement ring, the main goal is to celebrate yourself. Remember, your boudoir session should be a reflection of your personality and comfort level—there's no need for anything complicated or over-the-top unless that’s what makes you feel great.

At the end of the day, boudoir is about letting go, having fun, and creating images that make you feel powerful and beautiful. Trust your photographer, embrace the experience, and let your natural charm shine through. No matter what poses you try, the key is to enjoy the journey. When you look back at these moments, you’ll remember not just the photos but also the laughter and confidence you gained along the way. So go ahead—relax, have fun, and let your boudoir session be an unforgettable experience!

Have fun with your upcoming boudoir session, and I hope this simple article was helpful!