Why Women Are Making Boudoir Videos...And Loving It! 👙
- Mike Cassidy
- Jun 8, 2022
- 7 min read
Updated: Jan 15
Are boudoir videos becoming more popular? Absolutely. Should you consider adding a video to your next session? If you want to take your results to the next level, the answer is a definitive yes. Let's take a look at why these cinematic films have become such a high-end addition to the modern boudoir experience.
For many years boudoir photography sessions have been a popular experience for women. You know all about it! Simply stated, boudoir sessions a fun time. Women walk away from their sessions feeling energized-- it's a great break from a hectic work/wedding schedule. The takeaway from your session is beautiful artwork to keep and share. Additionally, your boudoir photos are great memories you can enjoy for the rest of your life.
Over the past few years, there has been an addition to the boudoir session that has been growing in popularity: the boudoir video. There are a growing number photographers that are offering video services to their clients as part of their sessions. I started shooting boudoir videos for my New Jersey clients perhaps six or eight years ago upon customer request. It really started as a spur of the moment thing when a client asked during her session if we could shoot a short video... sure, why not!
Since then, I’ve put significant effort into studying and practicing high-end video production. In my business at MC Boudoir, I work with clients from all over the Ocean and Monmouth County areas who expect spectacular results, so I’ve elevated my video skills to match the quality of my photography. I’ve moved past the "learning phase" and now offer cinematic boudoir films that capture movement and personality in a way a static image simply can't.
Since then, and as more clients have requested the service, I've personally put more and more effort in to studying and practicing my video production. You can take a look at some of the result my boudoir video gallery. 😀
Why the Video Portion is Often the Most Fun
Through my lens at MC Boudoir, I’ve witnessed that while the photos are the "main event," the video portion often becomes the highlight of the day. It’s about the sheer fun of the production. When the cinematic lights are positioned and the camera starts rolling, the atmosphere in the studio shifts. It feels less like a standard photoshoot and more like a high-end movie set.
What I’ve discovered is that my clients truly enjoy the role-playing and movement involved in a boudoir film. In a world of static "selfies," there is something incredibly exciting about being directed through a scene. Whether it’s a slow-motion walk toward a window or a playful moment undressing, women find that the movement helps them lose their inhibitions. They aren't just posing for a frame; they are the star of a short, elegant production.
This process is often filled with laughter and a sense of adventure. It’s a creative break from the daily grind where you get to collaborate with a professional to bring a specific vision to life. The experience of seeing yourself move with the grace and lighting of a cinematic feature is a "wow" moment that a still photo simply cannot replicate.
Creating a boudoir video for a partner adds another layer of excitement to the experience. My clients often share how much they enjoy the process of crafting this personal gift. --And husbands love them. It’s a unique gesture that feels both vulnerable and incredibly powerful. Knowing that you are creating a one-of-a-kind cinematic keepsake for your partner adds a deeply personal dimension to the session, making the time spent in the studio feel even more purposeful and fun.
Boudoir Video Q & A
Every woman should schedule a boudoir session at least one time. If you've been thinking about boudoir videos here's a short Q&A below...
What is a boudoir video?
Simply stated, it’s like a boudoir photo, but with the added dimension of movement and sound. It’s a professionally produced short film featuring the same aesthetic as your portraits.
How long are boudoir videos?
The final version of a boudoir video can range from a 45-second "teaser" to a several-minute "feature" film, depending on the complexity of your session.
What type of boudoir videos are women making?
Boudoir videos run the gamut similar to boudoir photo sessions.
The Portrait Film: Simple, elegant clips of you in a bedroom setting, with the camera panning to capture different angles and details.
The "Tease" Video: Often involves movement like walking into a room or slowly removing a robe to reveal a lingerie set underneath.
Atmospheric Clips: Some of my favorites are simple, quiet moments—like standing by a window in natural light—that emphasize the high-end look of the studio.
Boudoir videos don't have to be complicated or super scripted.
Another type of video being shot are what I'd call personal erotic videos. --More on that right below.
Are women shooting any erotic-style videos?
Yes. More than I ever thought... This was actually quite an eye opener for me at first, but many clients coming in to the Manchester studio really expressed an interest in doing something more intimate.
This is not something that women typically do in their everyday lives! The interesting this is I would see clients not only smiling, but laughing and smiling between takes. We really have a fun time.
What type of intimate videos are women making?
Well, I'll leave the details mostly to your imagination, lol, but I'll give you a hint-- Clients would often tell me one thing their partner loves the most is watching them. After they find out that its a fairly common request, and I show them some clips or walk them through some previous similar videos-- it's usually game on.
Is making a boudoir video expensive?
It can be, as video production and editing are time-intensive processes. Most of the videos I make for my clients are short and are often included as a "teaser" in specific client bundles. If you want a more involved, long-form boudoir film, we discuss those details during your consultation to ensure it fits your budget. Because of the specialized editing required, a produced video generally carries a higher cost than photography alone, but the results are well worth the investment.
How much does a boudoir video cost?
Like everything else in the photography world-- prices will vary. The bottom line is it will be based on the length and complexity of the project-- and your type of boudoir photography session or package. I've started including videos in some of my packages, but check with your photographer for details. I like to work light and fast and tend to keep things on the simple side. Many of my client videos are what I call "teaser" videos, which are general in the 1 - 2 minute range... Longer and more complex videos can increase in price significantly. Video editing is a time intensive process-- more so then photos, so, in general, the cost of a produced video can be higher than plain photography.
Do I need to have acting experience?
Not at all. Most of the movement in a boudoir video is very slow and subtle. I guide you through every single "scene," just like I do with posing for photos. It’s more about a slow turn of the head, a graceful adjustment of your hair, or a steady walk. You don't need to perform; you just need to be yourself while I handle the technical side.
Can I choose the music for my boudoir film?
Music is a huge part of the cinematic feel! I typically use high-quality, licensed tracks that match the mood of your session—whether that’s upbeat and playful or slow and sophisticated. We can certainly discuss the "vibe" you’re going for during your consultation to ensure the soundtrack fits the visuals perfectly.
Will the video include my voice or just music?
Most of the boudoir videos I produce for my NJ clients are "silent" films set to a beautiful soundtrack. It's not necessary to learn any dialogue. This keeps the focus on the visuals and the cinematic quality of the production. However, once in a while a client wants to put a short message at the beginning or end of a film for your partner, we can definitely plan for that. Sometimes clients to prefer to leave in the "ambient" sounds on intimate videos... if you know what I mean. 😉
How is a boudoir video delivered?
Your final edited film is delivered as a high-definition digital file. It’s easy to download, save, and play on your phone, tablet, or smart TV. Because privacy is a top priority at MC Boudoir, the delivery is handled through a secure, password-protected link, so only you (and whoever you choose to share it with) can view it.
Conclusion
Reflecting on the process of creating boudoir videos, it’s clear that this medium is much more than a trend; it’s a high-end way to bring a new level of energy to your session. The best part isn't just the final product, but the experience itself—the laughter in the studio, the professional "movie set" atmosphere, and that moment of genuine excitement when you see yourself in motion for the first time.
As I continue to expand the video capabilities at MC Boudoir, I am constantly inspired by the creativity my clients bring to the table. Adding a boudoir film to your session is an invitation to do something truly unique. It’s a chance to step outside the ordinary and create a cinematic keepsake that you (and your partner) will appreciate for years.
If you are looking to elevate your next session with a professional boudoir video, I’d love to help you bring that vision to life. It’s more than just a recording; it’s a high-quality production and a fantastic experience from start to finish.
Thank you to all the women who have stepped in front of my video lights here in Manchester. We aren't just making clips; we’re creating high-end, cinematic gifts that truly stand out.
