Why Women Are Making Boudoir Videos...And Loving It! 👙

Are boudoir videos becoming more and more popular? Yasss! Should you be creating a boudoir video on your next session? Um... Yasss! Let's take a look and see why boudoir videos have become so popular...

For many years boudoir photography sessions have been a popular experience for women. You know all about it! Simply stated, boudoir sessions a fun time. Women walk away from their sessions feeling energized-- it's a great break from a hectic work/wedding schedule. The takeaway from your session is beautiful artwork to keep and share. Additionally, your boudoir photos are great memories you can enjoy for the rest of your life.

Over the past few years, there has been an addition to the boudoir session that has been growing in popularity-- the boudoir video. There are a growing number photographers that are offering video services to their clients as part of their sessions. I started shooting boudoir videos for my NJ clients perhaps four or five years ago upon customer request. It really started as a spur of the moment thing when a client asked during her session if we could shoot a short video... sure, why not!

My first videos were quite simple. Video shooting and editing is an entirely new skillset a photographer has to learn in addition to the photographic demands of a client session. To be honest I knew little about shooting video... except my DSLR could do it! I flipped a switch and we started messing around and shooting video... she loved it!

Since then, and as more clients have requested the service, I've personally put more and more effort in to studying and practicing my video production. In my business I work with women who can come in from all over the country expecting spectacular boudoir results... so I had to get my video skills up to par! 😀

Honestly, my video skills are still a work in progress-- which I tell my clients, but that doesn't limit the fun we have during a session. And what I've seen is that women really do enjoy the video portion of their sessions. It may be just me, but the inhibitions seem to go by the wayside and the women really enjoy the role playing and acting.

Why Women Have Fun Creating Boudoir Videos

Through my lens, I've witnessed the transformative power of boudoir videos and why they resonate so deeply with the women I have the privilege to work with. These videos are a dynamic canvas, allowing them to express and embrace their sensuality and confidence in a way that static images can't capture. Watching themselves, they reconnect with the feelings of empowerment and self-love that we cultivate together during their session. It's a beautiful reminder of their elegance and strength, encouraging a positive self-image that counters the narrow beauty standards imposed by society.

Creating a boudoir video for a partner adds another layer of intimacy and connection to the experience. It's a vulnerable, yet incredibly powerful gesture of love and trust. My clients often share how crafting this personal and sensual gift not only brings them closer to their partner but also adds a deeply emotional dimension to their relationship. It's not just about the video; it's about sharing a piece of their soul.

Every shoot feels like an adventure, a break from the ordinary that allows us to explore and celebrate femininity in its myriad forms. It's a chance for my clients to step into a world where they can fully embrace their desires, their body, and their sexuality. This exploration is not just exhilarating—it's liberating. For many, it marks a significant chapter in their journey, a moment of embracing their power and declaring their individuality.

The creative collaboration in crafting these videos is perhaps what I find most fulfilling. Together, we bring a vision to life, from conceptualizing themes to selecting the perfect ensemble. This process is a dance of creativity and discovery, where each woman gets to explore different facets of her personality in a supportive and uplifting environment. The final video is more than just a keepsake; it's a testament to her unique essence and a celebration of her story at that point in her life.

Boudoir Video Q & A

Every woman should schedule a boudoir session at least one time. If you've been thinking about boudoir videos here's a short Q&A below...

What is a boudoir video?

Well, simply stated it's like boudoir photo... but in video form.

How long are boudoir videos?

The final version of a boudoir video can be anywhere from 45 seconds, for short boudoir teaser videos, to several minutes long for more involved boudoir features.

What type of boudoir videos are women making?

Boudoir videos run the gamut similar to boudoir photo sessions.

Some are simple videos of woman kneeling or laying in bed with the camera panning around them. The subject is often making eye contact with the camera and her hands may be moving around on her body.

Another common type are boudoir undressing videos. These typically run the line of a woman teasingly removing a dress or a robe to reveal undies underneath. She may come walking into a room, or it may start from her in standing still position.

Some videos don't even involve a lot of movement. Some of my client favorites are simple videos of the subject standing by a window looking cute with the camera panning around her body. She may or may not be looking into the camera.

Boudoir videos don't have to be complicated or super scripted.

Another type of video being shot are what I'd call personal erotic videos. --More on that right below.

Are women shooting any erotic type videos?

Yes. More than I ever thought... This was actually quite an eye opener for me at first, but many clients coming in really expressed an interest in doing some type of erotic video. That being said, "erotic" is a term that can man many things to many people but I categorize it as something that starts to take on more of a sexual nature.

This is not something that women typically do in their everyday lives! The interesting this is I would see clients not only smiling, but laughing out loud after doing a video scene. It's not uncommon for women to burst out laughing even in the middle us shooting a particular shot-- we really have a fun time.

What type of erotic videos are women making? Well, I'll leave the details mostly to your imagination, lol, but I'll give you a hint-- Clients would often tell me one thing their partner loves the most is watching them. After they find out that its a fairly common request, and I show them some clips or walk them through some previous similar videos-- it's usually game on.

Is making a boudoir video expensive?

It can be. Video production can be very time and resource intensive. Most of the videos I make for my clients are short, and sometimes are included in some client packages or bundles. If a client wants to do something more involved we need to discuss the details and see if it fits within their session budget. From time to time I have clients that request to come in to solely do videos!

How much does a boudoir video cost?

Like everything else in the photography world-- prices will vary. The bottom line is it will be based on the length and complexity of the project-- and your type of boudoir photography session or package. I've started including videos in some of my packages, but check with your photographer for details. I like to work light and fast and tend to keep things on the simple side. Many of my client videos are what I call "teaser" videos, which are general in the 45 - 90 second range... Longer and more complex videos can increase in price significantly. Video editing is a time intensive process-- more so then photos, so, in general, the cost of a produced video can be higher than plain photography.

Conclusion

Reflecting on the journey of creating boudoir videos, it's clear that this art form is much more than a trend; it's a powerful medium of self-expression and personal empowerment. The laughter, the moments of awe as they see themselves in motion, and the joyous surprises along the way - these are the memories that both my clients and I cherish. It's not just about creating something beautiful; it's about the transformation that occurs within, the celebration of self-love, and the affirmation of one's beauty and strength.

As I continue to explore the depths of boudoir videography, I am constantly inspired by the courage and trust my clients place in me to capture their essence. It's a profound responsibility and an incredible honor. To anyone contemplating a boudoir video session, know that it's an invitation to a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and celebration. It's an experience that transcends the ordinary, leaving you with not just a video, but a treasure trove of memories, confidence, and a deeper appreciation of your unique beauty.

Thank you to all the amazing women who have stepped in front of my camera, sharing their stories and embracing vulnerability with grace and strength. Your trust fuels my passion and pushes me to continue evolving in this art form. Together, we're not just making videos; we're crafting legacies of empowerment and elegance.