Should You Tip A Boudoir Photographer?
- Mike Cassidy

- Nov 3, 2024
- 6 min read

Hey, everyone. Deciding whether to give a boudoir photographer a tip can feel like uncharted territory. Many wonder if it's the norm in this unique niche within portrait photography. Boudoir sessions are deeply personal, blending artistry and intimacy in ways that typical service-based interactions do not always touch upon.
In our world of growing post-Covid tip fatigue, clients are sometimes uncertain if they should tip a photographer at the end of their session. This article aims to shed light on tipping etiquette for your boudoir photo shoot, providing a bit of clarity so you'll be better informed.
I'm Mike Cassidy. I'm a New Jersey photographer with over 15 years experience in boudoir photography. I can certainly bring an insider's perspective to this question. Having helped hundreds of women celebrate their individual beauty through empowering portraits, I understand the nuances of client appreciation and service industry etiquette like few others.
Let me give you a bit of insight regarding the intricacies of gratuities for photographers, making sure you leave your boudoir photography session feeling good about your entire experience.

Factors to Consider When Deciding Whether to Tip A Boudoir Photographer
When deciding whether to tip a boudoir photographer, consider customary tipping practices and the quality of service. Your personal budget also plays a role in your decision.
Customary tipping practices
In the service-based industries, tipping serves as a gesture of appreciation for exceptional service. Photography is a service so does the same hold for photographers? Does this practice also extend to boudoir photography sessions, as well? Hmmm.
The bottom line is tipping etiquette for boudoir photographers isn't widely standardized, so decisions can vary. Clients might consider leaving a tip if the photographer or photography team goes above and beyond their expectations, creating a positive experience that enhances the personal nature of a boudoir shoot.
Determining whether to include an additional amount for your professional photographer at the end involves evaluating several factors such as the quality of service received and the personal connection felt during the session. And oh, if there is a makeup artist present at your session... you should tip the artist.
For many women going through the boudoir photography experience, offering a cash quantity as a gratuity can reflect their satisfaction and acknowledgment of the photographer's artistic effort-- and that they had a great time! (And as a P.S., Lately I've seen some photographers adding tip requests during the booking process... don't do that! If you are considering a tip, definitely wait till after a session is completed. Trust me...)
While not obligatory, tipping is seen among those who wish to express extra thanks to their boudoir photography team for contributing positively to this unique experience.
The quality of service
When considering whether to tip a boudoir photographer, the quality of service plays a crucial role. Maybe you feel the photographer has gone above and beyond in capturing your unique beauty and confidence-- and you may want to show appreciation with a tip.
The attention to detail, skillful composition, and ability to make you feel comfortable are all factors that contribute to the quality of service. Moreover, if the photographer took extra time to tailor the session towards your preferences and provided exceptional guidance throughout the shoot, this is worth acknowledging through gratuity.
Ultimately, if you're delighted with the experience and results from a boudoir photoshoot where every detail was meticulously attended to by an expert, showing gratitude with a tip can be a meaningful gesture.
Personal budget
Considering your personal budget is crucial when deciding whether to tip a boudoir photographer. It's important to allocate cash for tipping without compromising your overall financial plan.
Budgeting for the photoshoot, including any gratuity, ensures that you feel comfortable and in control of your expenses. Understanding what you can afford allows you to express appreciation for exceptional service while managing your finances responsibly.
When it comes to personal budget, it's essential to prioritize how much you're willing and able to spend on gratuity. By factoring in this expense from the beginning, you can enjoy the boudoir photography experience without feeling financially strained or stressed over additional costs.

Final Decision: To Tip or Not to Tip
Should you tip your boudoir photographer? Making the final decision can be influenced by factors such as communication, appreciation vs. obligation, and other ways to show gratitude.
I certainly don't have an expectation of receiving a tip, and don't want clients to have an awkward moment feeling there is some obligation hanging over their heads. Although I never ask, or mention tips, there are some clients who will hand me tips on occasion after a session.
The bottom line here is that it is fine to tip your boudoir photographer after a great experience, but you should not feel obligated to give a gratuity. Your boudoir photographer will not feel slighted if you don't.
And also remember: The world of boudoir photography is wacky, and when it comes to competency, there are plenty of low to mid level photographers out there. Just because someone refers to themselves as a "pro," or shows up in a Google listing, means nothing. Aways do your research before booking, and wait till after your session (or even after you've received your images) to consider tipping.
Appreciation vs. obligation
Clients should understand the concept of appreciation versus obligation when it comes to tipping a boudoir photographer. Tipping is a way to show gratitude for exceptional service, not an obligatory expense.
It's important to recognize that while gratuity may be appreciated by some boudoir photographers, there is no strict obligation to tip. Rather than feeling obligated, consider tipping as an expression of appreciation for outstanding service.
When deciding whether to tip a boudoir photographer, keep in mind that it’s entirely at your discretion and depends on the level of satisfaction with the service received. Your decision should be based on how much you appreciate their work and the experience they provided rather than simply fulfilling an obligation.
Other ways to show gratitude...
Transitioning from the decision of whether to tip a boudoir photographer, there are alternative ways to express gratitude for exceptional service. Besides tipping, consider leaving a positive review online for the photographer or mentioning their services on social media platforms.
Another way is by referring friends and family to their photography sessions, spreading the word about their talent and expertise in capturing empowering portraits. Additionally, sending a handwritten note expressing your appreciation can make a meaningful impact on the photographer's day.
In addition to these gestures, booking another session with the same photographer shows ongoing support and trust in their work. This not only fosters a long-term professional relationship but also demonstrates genuine admiration for their skills.
These actions contribute to building a community that values and uplifts talented professionals in this ever-evolving field of boudoir photography.

Conclusion
Hopefully, this gave you a few things to consider in regards to tipping. In the end, tipping a boudoir photographer is a personal decision that involves considering customary practices, service quality, and your budget. You shouldn't feel obligated to do so.
It's essential to appreciate the effort of the photography team while distinguishing between genuine appreciation and societal obligation. Other meaningful ways exist, such as leaving a positive review, to express gratitude if tipping doesn't fit into your preferences or circumstances, ensuring a positive experience for both you and the photographer.
Remember, showing appreciation in any form can have a significant impact on those dedicated to capturing your unique beauty through boudoir photography sessions.
FAQs
1. Should I tip my boudoir photographer?
Yes, it's customary in service-based industries like boudoir photography to consider offering a gratuity in cash quantities after the session if you had an excellent experience.
2. What is the tipping etiquette for a boudoir photo shoot?
While there are no fixed rules, you can follow general guidelines for tipping based on the quality of service provided during your boudoir photography session.
3. Is it necessary to give a gratuity to the makeup artist at my boudoir shoot?
Yes! It's considered good manners to show appreciation not just with tips for your photographer but also with a gratuity for your makeup artist and other team members involved in your boudoir session.
4. What factors should I consider when deciding how much to tip after my boudoir photography service?
Consider factors such as overall satisfaction with the experience, level of professionalism displayed by all involved, and adherence to customs within the industry when determining an appropriate amount for tips.



